October 18, 2011

Sukkot and the immigrant experience

How would you answer this question: What do a sukkah, a turn-of-the-century tenement slum, and a home in the Boston suburbs all have in common?

Recently, our temple children were exploring comparisons between the sukkah mentioned in Torah, immigrant living conditions at the turn of the 20th century, and the children’s own sense of security in their homes. David and I shared with them some ancient rabbinic musings about the sukkah, in which it was suggested that God’s protective presence (symbolized by the “cloud of glory” which accompanied the Israelites in the desert) was the real shelter.

To give a sense of the sort of protective presence being suggested by the rabbis, we posed to the children this question: Do you feel differently being in your home when a parent is home versus when you are home alone? The younger children all spoke of feeling a greater sense of security and safety when there was a parent in the house. Many of the older children expressed a sense of freedom and greater relaxation when alone in their homes!

How do you understand the difference in their responses? What connections would  you make between their responses and the symbolism of the sukkah?

D’var acher / another thing: While not all Jewish immigrants started out on the Lower East Side, most did – and they climbed up and out as quickly as they could. Check out this recent book review for a peek at that experience.

October 10, 2011

Living with uncertainty - part four

Yom Kippur 5772/2011

On March 11th of this year, Japan was rocked by a massive earthquake followed by a terrifying tsunami. Imagine: One day you are going about your life, with a reasonable sense of certainty about what is happening and what will be happening… and the next day, everything you hold dear is literally swept away.

Everything about life is uncertain, except the certainty of change. Every one of us will be hit by a tsunami or a hurricane or some equally powerful blast in our lifetime. It’s coming – for some of you, it may have already hit....

Living with uncertainty - part three

Kol Nidrei 5772/2011

The story is told that when Solomon became king of Israel he had a ring made, upon which he had engraved the words gam zeh ya’avor – This too shall pass.

Gam zeh ya’avor. This too shall pass. An expression of the truth of life that is both saddening and liberating. Or, in the words of Abraham Lincoln when he told a version of this same story:  “This too shall pass. How much it expresses! How chastening in the hour of pride! How consoling in the depths of affliction!”

Gam zeh ya’avor. This too shall pass.

Everything about life is uncertain, except the certainty of change. Everything that we “have” will eventually and inevitably pass away. Slip through our fingers. And tightening our grip doesn’t make any difference; it only gives us rope burn....

October 7, 2011

Living with uncertainty - part two

Rosh Hashanah 5772/2011

Recently, Alan and I had reason to be in Logan Airport. As is our custom, we were there early, and thus had plenty of time to sit in the waiting area at our gate. Our attention was caught by a young woman – a very young woman – sitting alone with no carry-on except for one oversized garment bag with the name of a bridal shop on it. She also was there very early, but she was crying. Weeping, I should say. When we finally boarded the plane, the captain came on the PA system to tell us that there was a special passenger with us today – a “little girl” who had missed her flight earlier in the day and was therefore missing the rehearsal dinner for her own wedding. He asked us to give her a round of applause to show our support....


October 4, 2011

Living with uncertainty - part one

Erev Rosh Hashanah 5772/2011

Here is a story that we Jews have been telling for thousands of years:

Once there was a man named Avram (later Avraham/Abraham), who lived in the region of ancient Mesopotamia. Avram became convinced that there was only one all-powerful God, maker of heaven and earth, and that this one invisible and un-nameable God was calling him to leave his home, move to a promised land he did not yet know, and share his faith with the people he would encounter along the way.

You’re familiar with that story, right?

Here is another story, that you’ve probably never heard:....