Here is a list of what I imagine it might have been helpful for my 17-year-old self to be told when she was graduating from high school: 1. That boy who dumped you, who you’re pining for? He isn’t really what you’re longing for. It’s the delicious feeling you once had in his presence that you are yearning to feel again. You will. 2. That boy who’s an old friend, who you feel so natural and open with? That’s love. One day you’ll marry someone a lot like that boy. 3. Those obsessive thoughts running through your mind are just what the mind does. They are not who you are. Learn to meditate. 4. You are beautiful. Quirky, off-beat, skipping-across-the-street-barefoot beautiful. So is everyone else. 5. Your parents are sometimes lost in their own dramas. Have mercy on them. 6. Don’t feel guilty receiving love and support from adults other than your parents. 7. Y...